From the moment the pregnancy test results are positive, the mixed feelings around the day of birth begin to fear fear and desire to see this new guest, who will turn your life upside down, but from my experience as a mother, there are some things if you do this day, you will enjoy your time With your child without the feeling of chaos or negligence towards yourself or around you.
1. Sleep a lot and even spend some time in bed without doing anything.
2. Exercise appropriate for you, that facilitate the birth process, and strengthens the muscles of the abdomen and bladder.
3. Treat yourself, go to a beauty salon, try a pedicure, a manicure, a new hair story, remove your body hair with wax or soot, and then enjoy a massage session, all of which may rejuvenate your body despite the changes that have occurred, to prevent the appearance of stretch marks.
4. Go to the cinema, theaters and concerts, click it now, because you may not be able to visit with your little one.
5. Arrange the beads and travel with your friends. You may find it difficult to get out with your baby in his first months.
6. Make love: You may not do it for at least a month after birth.
7. Go with your husband to a romantic dinner, talk to him about your plans and feelings, and define the role of both of you in caring for the new baby, such as agreeing to change your nappy once or for a certain time of the day to have a little sleep.
8. Shopping for you and your child. You may need to buy some maternity clothes. Also, it is best to buy new baby clothes, bed and car seat now. Do not forget to buy diapers, wet napkins and pheromones. Even if you are breastfeeding you may need a pearl, because you do not know. If you have a child's milk supply, you can also prepare for the baby's week at this time.
9. Prepare the birth bag Early, when the time comes you will not have time to get all you need in hospital at the right time so always keep them all in one bag and ready to take it from near place so you will not forget it.
10. Set up a wonderful photography session with a professional photographer, or your belly pictures at different stages of pregnancy. You may then enjoy watching the changes your body has undergone, as well as your unique feelings and experiences in this period. You will probably yearn for those times when you were carrying your little angel inside you.
11. Prepare free meals in the freezer, such as hamburger, or cheese, because you will not have time to prepare food. You may be in a strange country. or far from you family, You will not have the chance to rely on your mother or sister for that.
12. Clean the house and arrange it. You can use one of them. If it is difficult to do this, it is difficult for you to do it on your own. You will not find it difficult to do some light work such as arranging your wheelchair and your child's wheel.
13. Make sure your home is safe for your baby, such as closing the power plugs with plugs, keeping everything that is breakable away from your child, and hiding any toxic chemicals or chemicals such as chlorine away from your child's hand.
14. Choose a skilled pediatrician, and if this is your second baby, you may already know one of them.
15. Rank with your spouse who will take care of your other children.
16. Make a list of the best names of children so that you will not be excited when you register your new baby.
17. Read a book from the skin to the skin, if you like reading, know that you will miss them for some time.
18. I know of an ideal mother, I do not mean those who are weighed down by this title on Mother's Day, but the successful mother who can raise good children, following the methods of modern education, you may find in the vicinity of your acquaintances or the pioneers of YouTube or Facebook, In this area.
19. If you are a working woman, whether you are working with them, if you agree with them about the period, whether you will be paid or not, and the possibility of extending them if you need to, and do not forget to plan for the period you will leave away from you, either with a relative or In the nursery.
20. Put a budget for your new baby supplies.
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